Planning On Staying Home This Xmas
Wednesday, November 28th, 2007Staying At Home This Christmas
Young families, today, face many challenges, even more than their parents faced a generation ago. Modern life has grown so complex that even the holiday season has become something to be survived, rather than celebrated, in many households. The pressures of, in most cases, two careers, daycare concerns, finances, and just time together as a family, make it difficult for many couples to face Christmas with the same enthusiasm they remember their own families having, just a few years ago.
Somehow, though, most families manage to survive this busy season, fairly intact. And though the way the Christmas season is celebrated may be different today than it was for their parents generation, todays young families manage to form their own traditions, which theyll pass along, to be adapted by the next generation. Even so, theres one holiday aspect that will never change for modern couples.
The parents of todays new parents, now grandparents themselves, expect the same kind of Christmas attention that their parents demanded, when they became grandparents. Grandmas and grandpas still exert pressure, loving though it may be, to be visited over the holidays by their children and grandchildren.
But while Christmas may be a time for family and fellowship, the gathering of the extended family just isnt as easy or practical as it was, even a single generation ago. For many families, no longer is a visit to grandmothers house a matter of driving across town. Especially if Grandmas moved to Florida. Many families today are seperated by great distances. And while families may be able stay in constant remote contact with phones and e-mail, travel is growing more difficult and more expensive.
Young families have it doublely difficult, traveling with small children. Besides the ever-increasing costs, theres the hassles involved with waiting in long lines and sitting for hours in airplanes on runways, while trying to keep little ones occupied or sleeping. Its not fun for a young family to start their own holiday traditions when theyre rushing from airport to airport.
When its possible, being with extended family is wonderful at Christmas. But sometimes the effort can create more discomfort than benefit. As much as wed all like to be with Grandma and Grandpa during the holidays, sometimes its better just to make plans for visiting, when things are less hectic. That way, the stress level is lower, and everyone can truly savor the joy of family.
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